i received an extremely uninformed comment that i didn't approve because this is my little space on the internet, and i don't want it full of pointless negativity from people with nothing better to do than try to pick apart someone they've never met. i would usually never take the time to respond to such a ridiculous comment, but when someone calls me a hypocrite and attacks my morality, well, you just opened up a huge fucking can of worms that i just refuse to ignore.
"Seriously? You fashionistas are a strange and spoiled bunch. I really like your blog, I do. But I have to point out something - you spend a lot of time yapping about animal rights and veganism, yet here you are, dressed head to toe in dead cow. Do you see the hypocrisy in this? Is there any logic in your head? I'm not trying to be mean, just.... really." -odetonarwhal
Number 1: "yapping" about animal rights and veganism? Exactly how many times have I mentioned those things in the 3+ years I've had this blog? Would you prefer that I "yap" about my super cute new Litas and how they were only like $300 and I'm like totally in love with them, or would you prefer that I start dialogues about issues that fashion bloggers never even touch on and attempt to do something productive and good in the cesspool of vapid, shallow, and thoughtless consumerism? Tell me, what WOULD you prefer that I "YAP" about?
Number 2: Dressed head to toe in dead cow? I thought that it was blindingly apparent that the shorts in my last post were not indeed real cow skin, as they are clearly made of cheap cotton to be part of someone's cowboy costume for Halloween. Are you even sure what real cow skin looks like? "Head to toe", which means every article of clothing I'm wearing is part of a dead cow, right? I didn't know cow skin could be woven into a cotton crocheted cardigan, or into a sheer chiffon tank top, or into plastic beads or seashells... you have seriously just enlightened me, dear commenter! I wonder if my own skin is also dead cow? Man, you really got me thinking!
Number 3: Yes, I am wearing some real leather in my last post. My VINTAGE leather bag and VINTAGE leather belt were purchased from a VINTAGE STORE, meaning that they were USED and I did not support the leather industry by buying a NEW leather bag and leather belt. Buying vintage leather goods IS NOT THE SAME as buying new leather. How could you even begin to compare those two things? Vintage leather was originally purchased new by someone, meaning that they supported the leather industry with said purchase. They gave their leather item to a thrift store, then maybe someone bought it and then THEY gave it to ANOTHER thrift store, and so on, and so on. So do you think every single time someone purchases that used leather item from a thrift/vintage store the money goes to supporting the leather industry, or does it go to the THRIFT STORE or VINTAGE STORE that it came from, promoting small businesses and usually the humanitarian deeds that thrift stores use their money towards? Buying second-hand simultaneously rejects the horrifying production of new clothing, which usually involves children and severely underpaid adults slaving over your $12 Forever 21 jacket. How's that for some fucking LOGIC?
I am also wearing real leather boots, which I did indeed purchase new months ago, BEFORE I made the commitment to become fully vegan and still with MUCH guilt over the purchase. My lifestyle choices and when I became serious about them are absolutely none of your business, and I have never once been preachy on this blog and have attempted to make anyone feel guilty for their choices, so how you decided to leave me this comment is beyond me... however, considering that 99% of my lifestyle is cruelty free, I opted to keep them instead of selling them or giving them to a thrift store, because I do indeed love and appreciate these boots very much and every time I wear them, I think of the animal they came from and am in no way ignoring the fact that they are an animal product. I am merely human, and I think one or two small slip-ups in my otherwise VERY strict lifestyle is absolutely normal and acceptable.
Number 4: Is there any logic in my head? Clearly, there is much, much more logic in my head than there is in yours. Perhaps you should attempt thinking critically before attempting to disprove someone's morality. I have been working EXTREMELY hard to establish and maintain a cruelty-free lifestyle. Are you aware how difficult this task is? Are you aware how many people don't do it, simply because it's hard? Are you aware of how many products contain animal parts that you would never even consider, such as dryer sheets? I stopped buying DRYER SHEETS after learning about this. My skincare and shower products are cruelty-free and vegan. I have began researching eco-friendly SHIPPING SUPPLIES for Tunnel Vision. The lengths that I go to for a clean conscious are extreme for my short time in this challenging lifestyle.
I strongly suggest that you quit reading my blog and that you take a deep look within yourself to see why on earth you would attack a person who tries to start meaningful dialogue on a FASHION BLOG, who loves and cares about the well-being of animals more than the well-being of humans, and who already practices and excels in the art of self-loathing and sure as fuck doesn't need to hear it from a stranger on the internet in the form of a snarky comment. I dislike myself very much the majority of the time and am the least prideful person in the world, but one thing I do know about myself is that I am a fucking GOOD person and nothing you say or do will change that.
Seriously, THIS IS WHY I want to go live in the fucking woods away from people. Think of all the disgusting horrible things happening in the world right now, and you use your time on ME?
YOU ARE THE SAD REMINDER THAT HUMANS WILL NEVER PROGRESS AND WE WILL BE A DISGUSTING SPECIES UNTIL WE ARE EVENTUALLY KILLED OFF BY OUR OWN STUPIDITY AND EGOISM.
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I LOVE YOU.
Also, I am fucking dumbfounded by how stupid people are. I give up on humanity, really.
You may remember, but I fully support you and your blog. People's mindless banter is just the negativity in their own lives being projected on to someone else to make themselves feel better. Of course they are going to judge you and pick you apart because they can't do it to themselves. Shake it off girl. You are better than that. They are just sad, pathetic and clearly bored. You are beautiful, a lovely writer, funny, strong and a business woman--something that they probably aren't. Let me guess--the commenter was anonymous weren't they? Gutless bastards. Glad you gave 'em what for. Just keep your head up and your eyes on the prize girl. They will stay stagnant in their hate and self loathing and you will soar in new adventures. Trust.
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YES. This. All of this.
People like this should exist? No. Please just ignore this kind of person futile and unloved. Ah yes, of course, this is just pure envy of your work and blog.This post is totally insignificant , since this review should not even have existed in a world that is today in day.Anyway, go ahead and continue with your blog as well.
People mostly suck. But sometimes you find beautiful ones. And I think you might just be one of them
beautiful inside and out.
if only the rest of the world
thought like you.
inspiring.
YES. Ugh I agree so much. Like. Really? That comment was totally uncalled for. I just. I have no response to it because I agree with everything you said.
Hahaha sick burrrn!
This inspired me to finally post you a comment. Well said. That commenter just spoke without thinking, like a spiteful red herring.
That person is dumb. Your outfit is inspiring. Your trip to Big Sur looks like it was amazing. I want the tie dye pants and the Kerouac.
xoxo
Remy
Sometimes you just have to respond to the trolls of the world. If only there were really a show like that one skit on SNL where they take those losers and slap them up a bit.
I really liked your response to your leather items. I too am vegan and have had qualms about my pre-gan and vintage leather pieces. It is refreshing to hear someone else talk about it. My reasons for keeping my leather pieces are 1)I don't want to be wasteful and 2) There is no way I can afford an acceptable pair of vegan winter boots to replace my vintage fringe booties or Dr Martens. I think these issues should be voiced more often. Thanks for continuing the important dialogue.
you're perfect
the last paragraph is pure truth. I think we're the exact same kind of pessimist. people are fucking dicks, damn internet anonymity allowing spineless fucks to say shit like this.
people are stupid. xox
Ugh, wow how can people be so damn rude. It's o awesome that you didnt let them get you down. Amazing blog, BTW
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Good on you for speaking out. I have very similar beliefs as you on animal cruelty and consumption. I haven't eaten red meat since I was 15 or 16. In fact I would rather eat human than a sheep cow or pig. I hate myself also for being sucked into consumerism and wanting and sometimes buying leather boots. It is really hard as a Westerner to face up to the hedonism and consumerism we are lead to see as normal. I love looking at fashion blogs but a few irritate me with their vapidness. You are one of the few that have a blog that is not only very pretty to look at but actually has depth!! That person is so clearly just jealous and lashing out.
I think sometimes that people forget that their words have effect. People are brave behind the screen; it's easier to say things with a keyboard than face to face, right? I think this person misjudged you, but still had an opinion, you know? He/she just got a little carried away and probably didn't think you'd even see the comment. Applause for reading comments though, because most popular bloggers don't! I like what you're doing, and you know as well as anyone else that you shouldn't listen to other people's nasty comments, but I really just think that this person was being a bit mindless at the moment. I'm sure they're embarrassed, and feel badly for what they said, but did you get your point across so that they'll change their though process? Your goal should be to gently teach them while they're wrong. Talking to angry people is hard, and this person is obviously upset. Most of the time, it's far more effective to be the calmest voice in the room (or blogosphere, in this case!)
Thats why I actually live on the woods far away from anybody.)
Good on you for speaking out and not letting some anonymous troll intimate you. Some people are just a waste of space, their negativity is draining and pointless.
Stay beautiful, fabulous and stylish. xxx
You inspire me!! Your dedication to living a cruelty free lifestyle is amazing. I wish that I had your strength and perserverence!!
Do not let the bottom of the human gene pool get you down!
People like you are the ones who truely get how terrible we as a species are and are doing your part to change the world!
You are beautiful. Inside and out!
Much Love
Anie
http://www.thelifeofanie.blogspot.com
Thank you for speaking out!
People are so rude! It takes so much more time and energy to be negative yet people still succumb to that level. I feel so sad for the people that have such shitty lives that they seek out the internet to comment on things they dislike. Tell that bitch to get a life!
xo, Jessica
Brit, you know I've been reading your blog for a long time, but my comments may have dropped off as of late. I just wanted to say KUDOS TO YOU for standing up for yourself. I can't even count how many blogs I read raving about Litas, and the only comments that come in are "Great! Wow! Cute!" Good for you for standing up for yourself!
I admire your hard work to retain a cruelty-free lifestyle, and you've never "yapped" about it or tried to shove it down people's throats. Don't go live in the woods. We need more people like you.
-Sarah
this response is perfect. it literally dumbfounds me how every day so much hatred is spewed at people on the internet, and I'm glad you're speaking out against it. a personal attack is a real thing, and people can't just hide behind their keyboards and not expect some backlash. I think everything you do is extremely thoughtful and worthy of praise. you're a TRUE trendsetter :)
this response is perfect. it literally dumbfounds me how every day so much hatred is spewed at people on the internet, and I'm glad you're speaking out against it. a personal attack is a real thing, and people can't just hide behind their keyboards and not expect some backlash. I think everything you do is extremely thoughtful and worthy of praise. you're a TRUE trendsetter :)
finally someone is responding to "those" comments.
i really like this post it encourages myself to look at me as a blogger and how i can use my voice to spread the word of inportant topics that will prevent as you stated before the human race from dying from our own stupidity.
so for that i thank you
thank you
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I feel like a lot of personal blogs run the risk of narcissism-- yours does not.
Keep sending out positivity and hopefully that will be the only thing you get back. I enjoy your blog a lot and it did genuinely inspire me to stop simply consuming and produce something... both on the internet and off. Keep up being a good person... that is all you can do, and I commend you for it. I am glad to see you have so many amazing readers that are also clearly great people.
PREACH!!!! STAY FLY, BEAUTIFUL, KEEP UP WITH YU BIZ, AND OMG MIDDLE FINGERS TO THE HATE!
love this, last paragraph was beautiful...
cruel words come from cruel people this cruel person just make you want to work harder which shows how good of a person you are and makes you strive for goodness even more don't let mindless people get in your way
You don't deserve any sort of negativity! But unfortunately there will always be the sour, lame people that have to stir up something over nothing. I'm guessing it might be over jealousy? That seems to be the only real reason to even write a comment that is so dumb and useless.
Keep it real like you always do!
There are lots of readers that support what you do <3
I love your blog. Don't listen to haters. Seriously, it's a waste of your precious energy! And your Big Sur post reminded me of my recent trip on the CA Zephyr train during which I re-read Big Sur and was delighted when the book opened with Kerouac on his own CA Zephyr trip "banging across that salt flat"... Keep writing and posting and the beautiful thing is that you CAN do it all from a little house in the woods :) looking forward to the next one.
People LOVE to make judgements just because they feel guilty themselves that they do not have the heart to feel this way about animals and cruelty. Ignorance...
Still loving your blog.
Much love,
Lenni x
hello.. from which book is it?
I love leather!
being against killing animals for the sake of the fashion doesn't mean you're free to buy leather items that are second-hand! being again killing animals for fashion items or eating their meat is much more that not supporting leather indsutry. One must be very shallow and narrow minded to think like that, and obviously that's your case!
tamara, calling someone whom you have never met "shallow and narrow minded" is quite shallow and narrow minded yourself. my stance on used leather is absolutely rational and does not support the leather industry by any means. OF COURSE i would prefer not to wear any leather at all, but i am living on this planet at a time where leather is nearly inescapable - my VEHICLE has a leather steering wheel- we are surrounded by it whether we like it or not- we cannot change that it has been being used for years upon years and that it exists in the world. i think that trying to make me feel guilty about my very cruelty free lifestyle is quite sad- shouldn't you be spending your time on someone who is out hunting for sport or eating meat at every meal or purchasing NEW leather which in turn supports the CREATION of new garments which in turn supports the SLAUGHTER of MORE cows? wearing OLD vintage leather does not support the slaughter or MORE cows, it is simply reusing an item which had been tossed away, which HELPS THE PLANET by not PRODUCING NEW SHIT. honestly, i wish people would think more critically, it hurts my fucking head to have to break it down like this to people. life is not black and white, there are variables and sometimes a person just does things a little different than someone else, which does make said person inherently evil or wrong. please leave your negativity off of my blog and kindly take it somewhere where it is deserved.
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